Have you ever felt like you have been betrayed or broken from family and close friends? Well, it happens which is a very hard subject to digest at the best of times.
Our trust in others serves as a potent reminder that the cost in lives of one arguments and conflicts can cause the will of people to fight one another; if we don’t process the reality of betrayal and work through its painful impressions.
Betrayal leaves us at the crossroads. We can choose to act in ways that either favour or improve our personal growth: we can become stuck in a bad moment forever or we can put it behind us for good. We decide our path, nobody declares it for us.
Our subconscious mind gets locked in, what I call a lonely prison cell, and sometimes it can be difficult to remove the thoughts. Some say that we should not drag up the past, but who wants their baggage following them everywhere they go, through every thought and action. It shows in the body language, when one has not removed their toxic thoughts. When removing the contents of our brain and wiping old memories out, our bad experiences and thought patterns can keep us stagnant. The wounds of betrayal hurt very deeply more than most know.
When the behaviour of others is putting you through many painful toxic statements, it fills you with emptiness, not feeling any love when they say they love you. Even though we are taught forgiveness, we do not have to accept the wrong
However, even though we are taught forgiveness, we do not have to accept the wrong behaviour of others; we need to detach ourselves from the pain and frustration. Not allow bitterness to creep in and try and bury itself. Forgiving them is like a weight off our shoulders, and when it is done a sigh of relief fly’s by like the wind and the breeze. However, if we decide to hold on to hatred and anger against others, our personal progress becomes suffocating.
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